How Long have you been doing what you do, and how did you become a Women’s Empowerment Leader & Transformational Life & Energy Coach?
To answer that question, it is probably best that I share with you a defining moment, and a resulting “compelling story”, that brought me where I am today- coaching people like you on exactly what to do to heal from within so you can shine out and create a life you love.
I have had several defining moments in my life, one was to leave my 26-year co-dependent, verbally abusive marriage. I had an exist plan, I was prepared, I just had to be patient a bit more. Before I could state my intention to divorce my husband my defining moment that stopped me in my tracks happened in January 2013. I got diagnosed with stage three Thyroid Cancer. My first internal scream in the seconds of hearing that was, “OH HELL NO!!! I did not come this far and finally muster enough courage to finally decide to leave my marriage and go create my life of passion to die and not live my purpose and not shine!” Letting my new reality sink in and the anger subside a bit, my response from deep within me was, “You can do this… it won’t be easy but you can THRIVE in your healing and have it all.”
For years I recognized this deep inward calling pulling at me, ever raising closer to the surface of me, wanting to burst forth into my world. The trouble was that I believed that it was not my turn to shine I became an indifferent, dispirited, people-pleasing machine. I disguised my anger through my warped misunderstanding of what love is. That love was conditional and had to be earned. This acceptance of that belief of love was my catalyst into a slow decent into my own personal hell. I could justify, manipulate, and hide from my pain and push away the feelings of not being good enough, not wanted, or not mattering. I felt isolated, afraid, and alone and always feeling I never would “get it right”. My internal question to myself was always, “What is wrong with me?” This question drove me to find the answer of me to try and fix me through self-help programs, reading books, doing extensive therapy and asking others the same question, all with different answers. I only became more confused and miserable…I now had evidence and validation that I was not living to my potential… I proved to myself I was not enough…which meant to me not wanted and not mattering…. UGH!!!!! It was exhausting!!! This pattern overtime twisted the TRUTH of who I am in my head and I became confused, then I became resigned, and then I became numb…. dying from the inside out. Eventually it made sick…really, really sick.
The week that I got diagnosed with cancer my husband asked me to see Life Coach to work on our marriage, I agreed. I went because I did not want to fight and I knew I was not going there to save my marriage but to save myself. My Life Coach asked me to email her journals of my feelings daily to her. Being a Doer, I was all-in with a task to focus on besides the cancer. For six months I poured my heart out to my Life Coach. She encouraged me to share my journals with others but I was too afraid of being judged. She one day stated that by sharing my journal I could help others to get in touch with their feelings. And from that conversation, I gained enough courage to share first in a support group then eventually in my book, Beautiful Mess- A Journey to the Universe Within.
As I cleaned up my inner world, took accountability for my own beautiful mess, I began to become curious about me again which sparked my creativity and my caring and compassion for myself and others. I completed my Master Degree in Human Dynamics, became a facilitator of a weekly women’s support group & a life coach. I became courageous and started sharing with other women my story and encouraged them to do the same. I finally “got it” …. I got CLARITY, and then I defined my PURPOSE, which revealed my PASSION where I now live and THRIVE in my life.
I live my dream of sharing my passion of my heart impacting others, inspiring growth and transformation in others with my story through coaching with groups and one-on-one, workshops, and seminars. I have made the commitment to dedicate the rest of my professional life to helping other women to own the truth of who they are, have more confidence, passion and peace in their life to create the life they have always dreamed of without the limiting beliefs that holds them back from living from a purposeful passionate life.
I have created a system that will give you CLARITY, define your PURPOSE, and spark your PASSION in 10 important foundational steps to embrace the whole of YOU, the shadow and the light, in order to SHINE forward to begin living the life you always imagined. To live totally happy and free in your passion and purpose. It is always a choice; life does not happen to you-rather you choose life.
Are you ready to choose to get CLARITY, to define your PURPOSE & discover and live in your PASSION and claim your GREATNESS?
How Does Life Coaching Work?
Not everyone looks forward to life changes, however, and some may have a hard time coping with them. Unfortunately, those who can’t or won’t change will often miss out on improving their lives. Some may even need help with these changes. Incorporating a Life Coach can help with life changes and transitions.
There are a variety of models that coaches follow, however in general most coaching adheres to the following process:
- Clarify what you want
- Assess where you are in your life right now
- Review your available resources and options
- Create an action plan
- Instill and focus on motivation and commitment
- Calibrate and keeping track of your progress
- Celebrate your success and reward your accomplishments
Who are your clients?
People who are ready to DISCOVER their GREATEST SELF!
Being precisely who you are, at your highest level, is your ticket to magnetizing the things you want most in your life. This is true for your love life, career, relationships, prosperity, health, and so on. It’s also the magic formula that will enable you to make a more powerful contribution to this world than you ever thought possible. Coaching is for you if you are asking yourself about any of these questions about
- Communication- personal and professional
There is only confusion (fear) when we are not willing to ask the questions to create clarity to define our purpose to ignite our passion and thrive!
If this has created a spark of awareness of curiosity to wanting to dive deeper into clarity of the power that you hold within to create the reality you want to live in., READ ON!!!
- Are you ready to go deeper?
- Are you ready to reveal your story?
- Are you courageous enough to go to the core of you to overcome limiting beliefs (mind-set)?
- Are you willing to do the inner evaluation to take responsibility for your life?
- Are you ready to claim and harness the power within you and live from an authentic purposeful passionate loving space?
- If you said YES to any of these questions, please take the few moments to reach out to me for a free ½ hour phone call to start your journey inward to tapping into the power of you!
What makes you different from other “Life coaches”?
I work on the inner and outer principals for success and look at your inner belief system. I assist in shifting limiting beliefs held in the unconscious mind and bring to an organic and spiritual perspective in the conscious mind to practice. What that means to you is that you get a wise-sage-meets-kick-butt authentic transformational life coach. I’m also very spiritual and I don’t pretend to hide it either. Because I’m not delicate, you’ll always get a straight to the point quick and honest response from me.
I’m concerned with how to get your attention and support you in the journey of realization of the potential. Once in your awareness the TEACHING and practicing will be FAST and IMPACTFUL. I will help you STOP wasting time and leaking your energy and your power where it doesn’t belong and get you focused on doing and creating the life you have always dreamed about but could not implement on your own. I don’t beat around bushes or waste time. You may not like what I have to tell you – but you can be sure I will always tell you the truth. The truth about what’s standing in the way of your success and how to get rid of it FAST so you can start getting results in record time (and I throw in a healthy dose of humor and inspiration, which always helps!).
I help each client to:
- Discover, clarify, and align with what is most important to inspire and maximize personal and professional potential
- I encourage self-discovery; sparking thought-provoking conversations
- Hold clients accountable to strategies formulated in our one-on-one coaching sessions
- Honor and recognize that each client is an expert in their life and encourage client to stretch into a new perception while feeling safe to do so.
Each client will receive:
- A booklet that covers:
- How to Love Yourself
- Unconditional Love Teachings
- Understanding The cycle of beliefs in your life
- Understanding your own TRUTH
- Power Words
- Authentic Communication
- Choosing Gratitude & Grace
- Access to me via email daily while actively coaching
- A weekly one-on-one phone/Skype/Zoom one hour coaching session
- A weekly booklet that includes:
- A Mantra
- Definitions & Universal Laws
- Exercise to pinpoint a certain belief/action
- A next-step to be fully engaged throughout week
What type of personality do you work best with and what is expected of me?
My Signature program, Clarity, Purpose & Passion for Your Life, was created for people who are excited and dead serious about breaking out of their rut, breaking through resistance, creating a more authentic purposeful passionate life and ending what I call “the spinning anxiety syndrome” – it means not running around all day long, beating yourself up anymore saying: “I should be doing WAY better than this in my life by now!” My Signature program, Clarity, Purpose & Passion for Your Life was formed for you to come to clarity and re-define your purpose sparking your passion to thrive in your life! My system will lead you to gaining more confidence, self-awareness, understanding of what unconditional love is, how to create happiness and finally attracting and stepping into the Power of YOU!
Being a high achieving go-getter myself, I’m known to work best with other high achieving go-getters, people who are committed to their success and growth no matter what, who are super-ready to get going and just want to know exactly what steps to take to gain clarity to re-define your purpose sparking your passion and thriving! My clients often tell me – “just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!” Consider what you’ll do with me to be a high-octane crash course on everything you need to know to succeed in your life. You will be expected to take serious and consistent action. No excuses anymore, just a very different way of thinking and full support while you achieve this incredibly exciting goal: confidence and self-acceptance, worth and love! You will be consistently expanding and growing in record time.
For what type of people is your program NOT going to work?
Please know I’m very selective in who I work with and I cherry-pick my clients, choosing to (gently) turn away people who aren’t suited for my programs and won’t get the results for which they would have signed up for. (It wouldn’t be fair to them.) My Signature program, Clarity, Purpose & Passion for Your Life, is NOT for those who have no interest in taking action to create clarity and passion. It’s been my experience that people who will not step out of their safety zone even a bit will not trust the recommendations I give them and do not do the work (probably because they spend so much time worrying about what they should of done or what they should be doing. If you fall within this category, it’s absolutely OKAY. We’ve all been there at one point or another. Do yourself (3) favors:
- Get some support through free groups (I can recommend some that are available; email me at- firstname.lastname@example.org), This will take the edge off and provide a little more peace of mind. Mostly, it will de-clutter your mind enough to focus on your Confidence to take the bigger leap inward and create a vision of your life. Once you have got some perspective call me for one-on-one coaching
- Download my free booklet on Unconditional Loving Principles at Barbheite.com. The free information will get you started towards your journey to finding you until you’re ready to work with me one-on-one.
- Make a point to become a follower on my social media sites for daily inspiration and practical tips (links found on Barbheite.com).
Doing these three things will help you get primed for our work. When you’re ready, call me and we’ll get you started. (I’m in no rush and will be here when you need me.)
I want to make it absolutely clear that I will not work with anyone (without exception) who whines excessively or is the chronic skeptic, as well as individuals who consistently make excuses for not getting their assignments done or challenging every aspect of the program. If you are one of these people, I gently and respectfully ask that you not call and I hope you understand why. We’ll probably just not work well together and I wouldn’t want you to waste your time or money. Is that fair?
What exactly is My Signature program, Clarity, Purpose & Passion for Your Life and what does it include?
My Signature program, Clarity, Purpose & Passion for Your Life begins with understanding your true value, where your power really comes from, how to manifest what you want, creating powerful intentions that get you results as well as the outer
pieces to powerfully get you in your authentic power to create the life you have always imagined. Here’s what the System gets you to do:
YOUR CLARITY, PURPOSE & PASSION™
Yes, YOU CAN Have It ALL!
Tune into your Authenticity, create unshakable Confidence and create a Deep, DEEP Intimate Relationships with the people who matter most in your life.
- Uncovering Your Story & Blueprint
Reveal your story of you; the triggers, the traumas, the tendencies that influences you right now
- Deep Dive into Transforming Your Core Beliefs
What are your core beliefs and is your core beliefs serving you?
- No more being triggered, Defending & Protecting
How to overcome defending, protecting, being triggered into re-action
- Mastering Your Emotions & Feelings
taking your power back and choosing to live from an authentic, freedom filled, passionate and loving mind-set
- Taking Action in the Face of Fear
Exploring the re-action to the unknown
- Overcoming Trauma & Abuse (Mind, Body, Soul)
Seeing a new story thread from our past experiences to uncovering our strengths and gifts that contributes to our happiness
- Growing Your Confidence
The Power of Gratitude & Letting Go-
- Understanding Your Shadow
Excepting the Whole of You- How your parts are serving you or not
- Appreciating your Strengths and Gifts
Creating a new story thread -The Power of You
- Making Different Choices–
Standing in your truth, rooted in love
Does this Really Work?
Yes! The result of our work is an approach to shifting your mindset so that with time, and consistency you’ll sky rocket your confidence in your ability to manifest AND live the life you have envisioned for yourself.
What results can I expect?
You can expect to:
- Gain unshakeable confidence in yourself – (a lot of my clients tell me that is worth the investment alone).
- Learn proven techniques for releasing your internal resistance and self-sabotaging tendencies so you can take action and start living your purpose with passion and with ease.
- Get crystal clear on who you want to be
- Create your life with the freedom of choices
- Master how to make choices that contribute to your happiness
- Learn simple techniques to move from anxiety and stress to peace and harmony
- How to recognize when choosing self-sabotaging behaviors
- Take action to redefine purpose
- Practice self-compassion, self-worth, acceptance and love
- Discover the untapped power of You to live and thrive in your passion
- Stay accountable to these goals and achieve them
- Set up new habits that empower you
- Receive specific tools, booklets and valuable information for you to use
Can I contact some of your former clients to see what it’s like to work with you?
Yes, I encourage you to! Let me know. See which ones you feel drawn to, either because the person has gotten the results you want to get too, or perhaps because that person is in a similar situation. Then feel free to email or call them and ask what they got from working with me and my programs.
How quickly can I expect results?
That depends on how quickly you can make those inner shifts. Some clients are ready to go and are 100% committed to their success. Results can very but in a very short time frame, sometimes even after the first session, there are amazing shifts, while others have a bit more work to do first. It also depends on how far along you are in your awareness of yourself and how inward (reflective) you are willing to be between sessions. If you do the work you will have results.
How can I guarantee myself that I will get more confidence, take my power back & create the life I want?
Do all your homework. Be totally committed to your success. Understand that this is a process, a proven one, that works if you take action and implement all of the steps. All my clients who have diligently applied every step of My Signature program, Clarity, Purpose & Passion for Your Life™ have successfully grown in much less time than they would have on their own AND have made more strides in implementing practices to live consciously, authentically, joyful passionate life.
Barb, based on everything I’ve read about you, I know you’re the one I want to learn from. What are my options for getting started with you?
Congratulations on making a decision for success! I’m happy to work with you to achieve your personal conscious, authentic, joyful passionate life. I prefer to work one on-one with my clients to help them gain FASTER results.
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